Why is it that you get stressed?
Is it because you have a new prospect to call and you’re concerned about embarrassing yourself? Is is because money is tight and you are not sure you can pay your bills this month? Is it because you are nervous about hosting that upcoming home party and having people be unhappy because you didn’t plan it well?
Let’s analyze this a… Continue reading
If you are a parent, then you probably know what it is like to be negative a lot of the time. At least, that’s often what it feels like. Parents are constantly telling their kids what NOT to do.
Of course, it’s not just with our kids that we tend to speak in negative terms. We do it with our friends, our co-workers and ourselves!
But what if… Continue reading
So 2009 is coming to a close.
Did you accomplish a lot? Did your business grow? Did you learn new things? Did you try out new strategies?
Was 2009 all you expected it would be?
Well, now is the time to make plans for the new year. If you are like me, you probably have lots of goals and new opportunities that you’re going after in 2010… Continue reading
There will always be things that you will consciously decide you don’t want to do, for one reason or another. But it’s those things that you are not willing to do out of DISGUISED EXCUSES that will hold you back from achieving your goals.
Now I’m not talking about anything immoral, unethical or illegal. Hopefully you have good, valid reasons for not wanting to do anything like that!… Continue reading
Last week I attended a financial wealth conference in Las Vegas, Nevada. The conference was all about BUILDING wealth in the current economic recession.
But it also led me to think about another topic. Peer groups.
You see, at this wealth conference, I met a lot of successful business people. A lot of entrepreneurs. A lot of people with money to lose. A lot of people… Continue reading
One of most common responses I hear when asking someone why they want to start their own home business is that they want to make more money, or to become rich, or to achieve financial freedom.
Oftentimes, this is not really what they want.
A friend of mine told me a long time ago that MONEY IS ENERGY.
Think about that.
Let’s say you ask someone… Continue reading
Optimist are happy-go-lucky, annoying people who think that everything will magically work out, right?
And pessimists are doom-and-gloom, depressed people who think the whole world is a miserable place, right?
Maybe.
But before we pass judgment, let’s take a look at optimism and pessimism in more detail.
Neither extreme optimism nor extreme pessimism is a good thing. By being overly optimistic, you can miss… Continue reading
Fear is designed to keep you safe. It’s a good thing to have, in situations where there is immediate danger. Unfortunately, we are rarely in any immediate danger, and fear that keeps us from our goals is not generally very useful.
But did you know that you may be reinforcing, justifying and validating your fears?
Did you know that you might be making your fears a permanent part… Continue reading
“I had a good day at school today, except for recess,” my son answered when I asked him how his day was. He looked dejected.
“What happened at recess?” I asked.
“Well, I just had no one to play with,” he answered in a small voice, looking at the ground.
“What do you mean?” I asked. It sounded strange to me that no one else would be… Continue reading
You know the feeling. That heaviness in your arms, the lethargy that overwhelms you the moment you think about that distasteful task you need to get done. You skate around it for a while, busying yourself with distractions until it’s too late to do the task today. Then you feel like a terrible failure for not having completed it.
We’ve all been there.
But to have any real… Continue reading