Why is it that you get stressed?
Is it because you have a new prospect to call and you’re concerned about embarrassing yourself? Is is because money is tight and you are not sure you can pay your bills this month? Is it because you are nervous about hosting that upcoming home party and having people be unhappy because you didn’t plan it well?
Let’s analyze this a… Continue reading
If you are a parent, then you probably know what it is like to be negative a lot of the time. At least, that’s often what it feels like. Parents are constantly telling their kids what NOT to do.
Of course, it’s not just with our kids that we tend to speak in negative terms. We do it with our friends, our co-workers and ourselves!
But what if… Continue reading
Often, we are taught that self-confidence can be built by focusing on how we walk, talk, shake hands, and make eye contact. But these are only outward signs of confidence, and they can be faked. The answer to obtaining real self-confidence is to practice self-efficacy. Note that I said you will need to PRACTICE self-efficacy. Self-confidence is a state of BEING. Self-efficacy is a state of DOING. The only way… Continue reading